Wednesday, January 03, 2007
Guy meets Girl = Couple NOT
Recently, a friend of mine for 3 years asked me, "Joey, how come we like never had romantic feelings for each other?"
Though intrigued by that question, i answered honestly, "eh, just dont have loh... maybe we dont see each other as potential husband or wife loh..."
With that, we brought up the topic on platonic friendship between a man and a woman. To me, i believe that platonic friendship only exists when there is
1. Absolute abstinence from falling in love with lust ( usually unlikely)
2. Completely no lust right from the start (most unlikely)
3. one party or both parties know the real meaning of wad LOVE is... (most very unlikely)
Therefore, we concluded that platonic friendship between a man and a woman is indeed not easy to come by...
Speaking of what LOVE is... who can really declare himself to be the expert at defining the meaning of this big word?
Though i aint any expert, through my humble experiences in relationships, i shall divulge some deep thoughts about love and relationships...
Falling in and out of love is an everyday thing, done by billions all over the world. Everyday, a new heart is broken, a new love is found and the cycle goes on...
Being in love is like being in a bermuda triangle. You will have no control whatsoever about almost anything that goes on around you and inside you..
One way or another, 3rd party is always ( however remote) the catalyst or core root to an end of a relationship. Another sad discovery.
Since "Nothing lasts forever", relationships and lusts are not spared. So behold, lovers out there...! All I can say is: Cherish the moments.. you'd never know how long it'd be in your hands.
The only true love there is... would be the love a mother could give a child, unconditional, unselfish and pure.
So, pack your 'I love you's' and throw them out the window.
Think again before you say it... Are you sure it's love , and not lust? Or confusion?
Like is better.. Like is so safe.. I like Fried Hokkien Mee.. I like BMW.. I also like ZH, I like Hua Hua, I like KJ.. Like is fine... I like my guy friends.. I like hanging out with them..
But Love is deep dude...
And if you think : like + lust = love.. then you are in DEEP SHIT!
Because: like + lust = an exciting affair!.. while it lasts of course!
Needless to say, to me: Love at First Sight is Complete Bullshit!
Lust you mean.. lust would be fair enough..
You will truly love someone when it comes with no tag that says " expectations".
When you dont expect anything back... absolutely NOTHING.
Even your bestfriends.. would you still love them if whatever little you expected of them was not returned to you?
Like when they disappointed you big time, time and time again...You may still be their friends, but with the angst and disappointments embedded in you, love? I dont think so..
So, Love is seriously deep... hmmm
I've made life seemed loveless and sad on the 3rd day of the new year.
What should I do now? Slap myself?
Alrighty!
Posted by joey at 11:46 PM
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Because: like + lust = an exciting affair!.. while it lasts of course!
ahhaha... totally agree... I like u joey... muahaha..
